"Don't Grieve the Holy Spirit" Ephesians 4:28-30

When God gives us a new nature, He also calls us to a whole new way of living.  Instead of getting stuck in taking advantage of others we are to work so that we give generously in helping others.  You can only grieve someone who loves you.  You are a beloved child of God and it grieves the Holy Spirit living in us when our attitudes and actions don't align with who He has made us to be in this world.